I’ve been struggling over the past few weeks with punishment. What is a proper punishment for various actions, how to implement such punishment, and when or where it is appropriate. As a result of these questions, I have been avoiding punishment at all costs and pretending that there was no reason for it.
This article hit home with me in that I love viemoira so much that I don’t want to hurt her, and didn’t know how to teach her. I’ve clipped just a small portion of it, but it does go into some excellent suggestions for punishment that I feel I could actually handle and that would be effective.
-MH
Many people balk at the idea of punishment. It can be very difficult to accept as part of the relationship. I think the problem comes in when it is viewed as punishing an adult. As well, those involved in a BDSM relationship because of love, have a difficult time fathoming punishing the person they love so much. The easiest way, and readily understandable way, of explaining the role of punishment in BDSM is to liken it to the role of punishment in a parent child relationship.
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