Master Homis’ Domain

This is an example of Master and I having one of our amazing philosophical debates on training within a lifestyle of 24/7 M/s relationship…may be scattered but thought provoking to say the least!

(-MH I must be thankful for having such a wonderful slave to take my thoughts and put them to writing. I have a very difficult time in writing so to be able to speak my mind and have viemoira write it out in words that make sense means the world to me.)

Chivalry; a man opening the door for a woman- this is how Master Homis thought it should be; this is what became known to Him as proper. This came up because He believes in being a Gentleman. Today we conversed and i let Him in on my venting regarding lax in training lately (not His fault just so much going on). He then decided to research training and decided upon making my next task to be me opening doors for Him.

(-MH With so much going on I have certainly been lax in training, a fear of pushing beyond the limits as well as myself not feeling well. viemoira asked if she could vent to a mutual friend today and I said it was ok. I said that it would be ok and she ended up telling me what she had been venting about. Given what she had said I knew it was time to begin ‘proper’ training again, no more take it easy. Two things I came up with to start working on were to have viemoira open and hold doors for me and regardless of what was going on, not turn her back to me. )

As much as it goes against His chivalry in His mind’s eye- He feels it enforces submissiveness in the effect of having me opening the door, stand and await His Exit/Entry and follow behind. Master at first spoke of His discomfort of the point of chivalry. He went against His natural mindset in taking on this facet of training. He chose to have me open doors for Him based on reinforcement of my submission…as it is a service to Him to open the door and allow Him to walk through…His selfishness… battling from inside outward…He does not believe He is a selfish person but sees the need the embrace and demand it…

(-MH I was torn about the idea of having viemoira hold doors for me. In the beginning I had been against this whole idea, I felt that it was not proper. After thinking about it a bit today I decided to take this as a lesson to be learned and a part of training. I felt that while I may be pushing chivalry aside, it would help to assert my dominance and viemoira’s submission.)

After some discussion, I saw His point in the training to have me open doors for Him but saw much more reasoning behind it from my standpoint. Master was very much involved with…per say sketchy histories involving organized crime. i thought of opening the door for Him as kinda blah at first in all honesty but then began my too common over-analysis.

(-MH I had been involved in, let’s say a high ranking position, organized crime. I knew what it was like to have to be in control, but also to wonder who might be pissed and what they might do. Viemoira pointed out that I wasn’t being selfish in wishing her to open doors, but instead being protective by going through a door first to make sure everything was safe. This really hit home for me, I truly want my beautiful slave safe and while having her open doors may reinforce submission, it does also have me making sure that she is safe to pass through said doors.)

i thought deeply about how i would feel in public opening doors for my Husband and Master and came to the conclusion of protect. I was able to final put it into perspective to inquire to Master “What happens when you walk outside any given door?, What do you see?, What are you certain of?”

It was then our minds settled as one and He realized was i was getting at ; for if there were danger on the other side of that door is it not my Master’s duty to face it first and ensure my safety and protection? Our agreement was “yes- indeed”.

You see- many outsiders can pick apart what we in this lifestyle do and they just do not get it; Master has His hang-ups on chivalry and i have mine on independence but breakdown this simple act of me opening the door for Sir. Think of how sadly many couples not living our lifestyle would be blinded by the obvious protection and overwhelming feeling of safety that a woman or slave has by opening a door for their Man or Master to go ahead of them and ensure their safety and protection…

(-MH I find it interesting, as we go through these moments, the deep philosophical debates, that we are both learning what at a glance would be perhaps shunned by the ignorant masses, the more important lessons in life. These all seem as though they are ‘BDSM’ lessons, but in reality they are the simplest of lessons, things that all people should consider in life. While I do respect chivalry, it has a world of meaning to me, but some of the lessons are perhaps a bit outdated and having little real world value today. I love that viemoira can show me a present day value in some of the old ideals as well as open my eyes to a new way of seeing things that are much more practical today than they may have been two hundred years ago.)

Huh…food for thought

~Master Homis and his vie

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