Infractions and Life in General
Master Homis and i have had one shot luck after another- first the toilet seal broke, then the washer finally totally shit the bed, the kitchen sink is acting all funky and turning on instead of off and vice versa…ahhh!!! When it comes to shit we need around the house breaking the saying goes when it rains it pours! Oh well- i try to be positive and think about how our kids are healthy and we still have jobs and we’re not starving. But seriously with the economy the way it is and the gas and oil prices at an all time high i feel as though i’m getting bent over and fucked and not even enjoying it!
But on the opposite side of the spectrum; Master is keeping my head above water in the realm of stresses by bending me over and fucking me in a way i do enjoy! Yep- sex and love are the key to relaxation. Don’t get me wrong i love to curl up in Master’s arms and cuddle with Him and all that sweet happy shit but i think sex cures EVERYTHING! i’m sure that there’s some sex addiction group for nymphomaniac women that are sadomasochistic that i would likely bring lovely conversation to. Hell with that…i’d rather just blog about it for everyone to read as they choose.
Master has been making good use of His compliant wanna-be submissive / slave. i say it this way because i recently found and article from a blog entitled Pain Healer which helped me put into perspective where i am as a submissive and slave; sadly i am clearly neither and still rank among a “compliant” at this point but hey there’s still plenty of learning and growing to take place for both of us. It is a struggle to begin this lifestyle with a pre-existing marriage and family but damn it feels so right!
(-MH I was very impressed with the site viemoira mentions. It put to words a number of thoughts that I already had, but wasn’t sure how to really express them. I do wish it was updated on a more regular basis, but the fact that the content is so insightful will keep me reading and anxiously waiting for each new post.)
Master Homis has me carrying around a notebook now that i must list my infractions on throughout the day. He was initially going to punish me for them once a week but He has up’d that to daily for two reasons; 1) more consistent training and 2) i don’t think He realized how quickly they’d add up lol! Not that i am proud of it but i am proud of the fact that i am overly honest with Him and even take it upon myself to write down thoughts i have throughout the day that i feel need discussion and perhaps behavior modification. Master Homis is helping me to be what i ultimately dream of becoming; the best woman, wife, mother, and slave in his eyes as well as our kids.
(-MH The idea of the notebook evolved from an idea of a list of infractions that had a very specific punishment assigned to them. Part of the issues I have had with training and punishment was to find a way to implement punishment and also keep it fair given what had brought on punishment. Within the notebook will be the list of items that earn punishment, which I will go over with viemoira at the end of each day, I determine if what is listed is truly grounds for punishment, we discuss each item in the list, and then punishment is carried out.
A prime example of why I want to discuss each item is from yesterday where viemoira felt she had disrespectful thoughts. When I read what they were, I pointed out that they may not have been the best thoughts out there, but that I was not going to punish her for being open and truthful with me, but rather that I would prefer to have those qualities grow.
Some other ideas that have been going through my head were to have perhaps a weekly post, or perhaps a side blog for tracking infractions and punishment that was given. This is something that I will have to think about a bit more while we see how this system will work out in the longer term.)
i also put together a rough schedule for us as both a family and as a D/s couple to ensure we are making adequate time with the kids to do family things as well as ensuring we have time each day together to go over infractions, have naughty play, or just talk to each other. i know the schedule will never be followed to the “T” but it is certainly a good tool to keep on track time and important things to be done each day. i really see this helping us as much of our battle has been finding time to play naughty and discuss the dynamics of our relationship as it progresses once the kids are in bed…
(-MH The idea of a schedule is a great one, we keep having ideas on what we are going to do, but never seem to find the time. Having guidelines in black and white I feel will help out very much. I feel that the infraction list and the schedule will help me in building a much more useful list of rules. Unlike the first list which was built almost entirely on ideas, the new list will be based on things that are dealt with on a day to day basis. Things like bedtime and time to wake up will be much easier to enforce, on the other hand the currently unrealistic items will be removed. This will allow us to really focus on the things that need work right now. Over time I know that the rules and also the infraction list will change. Items that incur one lashing in the list now may incur two or more later given the idea that if over a few months time a single lashing doesn’t work, then more severe punishment is needed.)
In other news Master Homis is perhaps training my ass??? Not sure if it is where He is doing but he certainly has been having fun making me wear my butt plug and slipping His big cock in my ass when i least expect it. mmmmmm there is nothing more titalizing then anal sex in my book- ultimate pain and pleasure combined. i love how it feels when He cums in my ass! i also like it when He prepares my ass by having me wear my butt plug in the most awkward situations like cleaning the house, going to work, shopping, or going for a walk. There’s such a naughty good feeling about walking around in a short skirt, no underwear and a butt plug in your ass!
(-MH Hehe, I hadn’t really thought of training in that aspect exactly. I had been intrigued by what I’ve read of slaves walking around stores with a butt plug in place, given that I’m a very curious person I decided that viemoira had to have one. as for sliding my cock in her ass, there is definitely a certain level of excitement for me to be able to take her and still be able to finger her soaking wet pussy.)
Oh- and if any of you are wondering about why i have not posted any titty pics for Tuesday its because i have decided to forward misc pics straight to Tits for Troops in hopes that you all will go there to check out all the hot contributors!
(-MH There is one particular TFT shot that I can’t wait to see posted, I won’t give away the pic, but a hint is that it involves heavy machinery 
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Master’s branding on my ass is looking awesome per Him! i think it is looking great as well and love the feeling of it! Master mentioned that it is definitely time for nickels to be taped to enhance it; He’s been waiting for it to heal entirely before doing so.
One last thing before i go; someone contacted Master the other day and said i have major exhibitionism tendencies - hmmm! They mentioned having a poll to allow visitors to vote and so please comment on:
- Would you vote if we had a poll?
- What would you like to see for a poll?
- Hope everyone is having a great start to the week!
(-MH We had polls set up on the old blogging platform and it has been something that I had been thinking about trying to get working again. Ideas that I had were to have each poll have it’s own page so that people would not be restricted to just the options given in the poll, but could also leave comments if they had an idea and it wasn’t in the list that I come up with.)
~vie
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June 17th, 2008 at 3:40 pm
If you put up a poll I would happily vote. Not sure what your polls should be about LOL. I think you guys are doing a wonderful job in your relationship. It saddens me however, that you will not take the title of being a sub or a slave. Why? Every relationship is different and defines it differently. Just because someone says something is supposed to be a certain way, doesn’t mean that you are any less because you don’t agree. I wouldn’t be bound by this site.. UNLESS… you in fact want to define yourself as such… then carry on. But I think you are sub/slave. And I am going to have to visit this site… you had your ass branded for god’s sake.. what about that doesn’t make you a slave? How can you still be considered a “wanna - be”???!!!! OK I should shut up and go read now.
June 19th, 2008 at 10:56 pm
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